After returning from a trip to the children's museum with our friends, I paused, realizing it had been a 100% outburst-free outing. Complete cooperation. Some dawdling, yes, of course. He's a child and not even 4 yet. But there were no tantrums and no tears (from either of us!), and we were out for about 4 hours.
Once at home, I took my little boy's hands and said "Thank you for being such a good boy at the museum today!"
He smiled, and responded quickly, "Thanks for being such a good mommy at the museum too!"
"What did I do that made me a good mommy at the museum?"
He looked at me matter-of-factly. "You stuck with me!"
Hmm.
How many years til he tries to lose me at the museum?
I think I'll savor this while I can...
Even though last night he told me I wouldn't get a treat if I didn't find Mr. Potato Head's missing ear!
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Moments after this exchange with my son, I read this piece by Antique Mommy. If you don't know her, she's Mom to a 4-year-old boy, too. I so often relate to what she writes, which is always expressed so beautifully. Go. Read. Bring tissues!




How sweet! You made me feel all squishy. Zed used to say things like that. Sniff.
Posted by: InterstellarLass | Wednesday, January 09, 2008 at 11:38 PM
I *heart* outings or even days like that!! I really, really do...
Posted by: Melody | Thursday, January 10, 2008 at 01:27 AM
It was such a nice trip to the museum, wasn't it? And Isabella behaved too, which isn't always the case. Your little K is quite the charmer, and he's very lucky to have you "sticking" by him.
Posted by: kristi | Friday, January 11, 2008 at 04:45 PM
That is very funny! Boys are great for blog fodder.
Posted by: vw bug | Saturday, January 12, 2008 at 10:23 AM
that is so cute. I remember in the pre-blogging days trying to capture things like this that my daughter (now 16) would say. I think there's a book of 'em somewhere. but the thing is, don't lose them!
Posted by: Uisce | Monday, January 14, 2008 at 11:18 AM
Yay! Tantrum free - it's funny how you don't notice that until you get home!
We're going there in a couple of weeks - we haven't been there in a couple of years.
Did you find his ear?
Posted by: lisa | Wednesday, January 16, 2008 at 07:10 AM